Heller...
It's been a while hasn't it? I guess sometimes my attention gets occupied by other things... mainly going to school, spending time with friends as well as circle-times.
I guess I should catch up...
Since my last post my status has changed to single! I don't know about ready to mingle but most definitely single, it's about time I know how it feels to truly be young, wild and free ;)
I've started the new semester as well which might be another reason I haven't been able to post anything up here, since I've mainly been typing for school or work. UGH!
I also got suspended from work sometime in August because I was being "insubordinate" aka not being a P#*sy!! I live the thug life lol
I won't go into details on the break-up, but I will say that sometimes we have to do what our brains tells us to do and stop trying so hard for something that acts as if it doesn't want to happen. Sometimes the barriers aren't worth breaking. I've realized sometimes we stay with someone because we're afraid of being alone. The fear of not having someone to talk to till you go to sleep, or not having someone to talk to when you feel like your chest is heavy (with emotion that is, not physically for the pervs -_- lol) keeps us anchored in the wrong sea. I had to analyze my situation and noticed, the same things I was afraid of not having were the same things I was longing for. So I was with someone who offered none of what I needed. Sex should never be something we make a priority (as good as it feels, it can also leave you feeling empty and used). But yea that's part of what's been going on...
As for the getting suspended from work thing... THAT is a funny story!!
I guess I will just not stand for someone to disrespect me, and when you speak to me with your hands (making gestures) I'm going to take it as you pressing me. There is no title on this planet that will save you from my wrath.
I hate Mondays and that isn't a secret, this particular Monday happened to be a Tuesday because I hadn't come in on real Monday lol. I came in and said (very politely) "Good morning" and didn't receive a reply. My boss had been leaving early every Friday for the previous 3 weeks and a call had come in for an address change which I have no access to. I told the caller to call back on Monday and she called back on Tuesday, I tell my boss and she asked me a question that made no sense. So I asked her what, and since what means repeat exactly what you said because it made sense the first time I just like hearing it, she asks the same exact question. I asked her what a second time and the reaction I received was "ARE YOU NOT FOCUSING?!" while throwing her hands in a "HELLO?!" kind of manner ( I should tell you that my boss has the type of nails that make you question her hygiene). I wasn't happy about that, and of course made it clear by frowning and saying that I don't believe she's using the right words, she asked me to pick up my things and go home. This pissed me off! I asked her if she was firing me? She says "No, you're being suspended!" to this I replied "F**K OUTTA HERE! Call your boss and tell him to tell me that". To make a long story short, this wasn't the right thing to say to a power-hungry person lol. I got suspended for 4 days and had the weekend off, so all in all I came out winning! Broke, but still with dignity.
Anywho, I plan on writing more often once the semester is over because I've been asked what's going on with the blog and I feel bad for starting something and not realizing people were actually reading. :)
Also I don't want to make this an online diary. Send me questions and scenarios that I can write about, stimulate me folks! lol
Well, let me get back to work before I end up suspended once again, hope you all enjoy this Monday (which I dislike) and stay AWESOME!!
Monday, December 10, 2012
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Personal Rant
Sometimes... we have to vent our feelings, so why not just rant aimlessly through the keyboard to whoever will read...
I guess this is something that bothers me because I believe I'm more than a nice rack and cute butt. There are times when guys I've talked to in the past or I've known in the past for whatever reason contact me, make small talk and then start talking about my physical attributes ie. "you have big boobs" or "looking good"....
Six years later I get emails and messages on social networks that start with...
"Hey Sherry! Long time no speak!" <<<<<<That is already the beginning of an uncomfortable conversation. From there it usually goes into the "how's life?" bit<<<< where I proceed to say that life is great and keeping me super busy and blah.. blah... blah... EVENTUALLY but not too far from when the conversation started it turns into, "where did those boobs come from you didn't look like that before?!"<<<< FIRST of all, unless there is a doctor out there handing out free boob jobs, I never got one! SECOND, had you paid attention when you had MY attention you would have seen them GROW! THIRD at this point I'm only entertaining a conversation with you, so you could EAT YOUR HEART OUT!
So here goes a personal story...
A few years ago I had a crush on this guy... We didn't hook up, just fooled around. Then we didn't talk for a very long time, like long enough for me to not think about him at all. Then a year or two later he contacts me on facebook and gives me his number, and tells me that I should text him because he wants to talk to me. He did the "how's life?" bit and then got down to business, tells me he doesn't want a serious relationship, and we should hang out. Then within a month he has a serious girlfriend. Don't get me wrong, it didn't affect my life because he wasn't a focal point but it just is so disappointing to see that some guys can be so full of themselves... although he remains nameless here, I won't trash talk him because as a person, he's a-ok.
Here's the kicker though! (This one here is the reason I am writing this post, I just noticed a pattern)
When I was significantly younger... I met a guy we can call him Chris (Not his name at all). Chris seemed to have it going on, he was older, he worked for "BMW", and he was pretty hott! Problem is he was on the verge of moving to FL because of a burn on his leg that was pretty bad. Regardless, we kept in contact for all those years. In the process I would send him little pics here and there of myself and he would send me pictures back, this was the extent of our fling. This was our thing, since we weren't able to see each other. We got to know each other pretty well and he even helped me out a few times. He was the beez knees... Then when I was finally able to make a trip down to FL, I find out he has a girlfriend who is pregnant. I know at this point that it's over and will not ever happen, so I agree to see him and hang out with him and my friends that were with me. Nothing at all happens... I'm talking not even a hug. This was in 2009 by the way. When I get back home I'm getting phone calls from the girlfriend calling me a slut and that I should know that he loves her and they are having a baby and they are soooooo happy and I need to stop trying to break up the happiness they have............. IS THIS B#*!@ SERIOUS?! I told her there was nothing going on and that we were just friends, but my best friend wasn't satisfied with that... So she then went on to tell the girlfriend that "he's a triflin a$s n*%$a" and that if he was able to lie to her or omit the fact that he was going to chill with me and we're just friends that she should just IMAGINE what he does with girls that aren't just friends....
Needless to say... that caused a lot of trouble.
Fast forward to this year... he contacts me again through facebook, and commences the "how's life?" bit and I give him the "life is great and keeping me super busy" and blah.. blah... blah..-bit and his next statement was "wow ,you still have big boobs!" I thought to myself that FOR SURE he had lost his Muhfuggin mind!
I really want to flip out but the truth is, that this kind of $hit is always going to happen, because we put ourselves out there and then want guys to respect us. I'm not proud of the shit that I did for any guy to ever think that it's ok to objectify me to the point where it just becomes about one of my body parts, or several. I've made a personal decision to not put myself in the "stupid" position. I will work on my actions and reactions and that way there will be no reason for me to be disrespected because I respected myself from the beginning. People don't always get what they want but they get what the deserve. When you push too hard for something you WANT, you end up getting the wrong thing, or you might even mess it up lol. I'm going to be a big girl now. I will not look for any one's attention. I will give myself attention and in the end... it will all work out.
I think I'm done venting.
<3,
Sherry
I guess this is something that bothers me because I believe I'm more than a nice rack and cute butt. There are times when guys I've talked to in the past or I've known in the past for whatever reason contact me, make small talk and then start talking about my physical attributes ie. "you have big boobs" or "looking good"....
********************NEWSFLASH GENTLEMEN!!!!!!********************
We don't need you to tell us you want to do the no pants dance with us... we know. Now the problem is this... most of the time you have known us before and never made a pass. I know this was usually the case with me. I wasn't always this awesome looking (yes, yes I'm tooting my own horn because I can dag nabbit!), believe it or not. I used to have crushes on guys that I thought were hot $hit and they wouldn't give me the time of day. Six years later I get emails and messages on social networks that start with...
"Hey Sherry! Long time no speak!" <<<<<<That is already the beginning of an uncomfortable conversation. From there it usually goes into the "how's life?" bit<<<< where I proceed to say that life is great and keeping me super busy and blah.. blah... blah... EVENTUALLY but not too far from when the conversation started it turns into, "where did those boobs come from you didn't look like that before?!"<<<< FIRST of all, unless there is a doctor out there handing out free boob jobs, I never got one! SECOND, had you paid attention when you had MY attention you would have seen them GROW! THIRD at this point I'm only entertaining a conversation with you, so you could EAT YOUR HEART OUT!
So here goes a personal story...
A few years ago I had a crush on this guy... We didn't hook up, just fooled around. Then we didn't talk for a very long time, like long enough for me to not think about him at all. Then a year or two later he contacts me on facebook and gives me his number, and tells me that I should text him because he wants to talk to me. He did the "how's life?" bit and then got down to business, tells me he doesn't want a serious relationship, and we should hang out. Then within a month he has a serious girlfriend. Don't get me wrong, it didn't affect my life because he wasn't a focal point but it just is so disappointing to see that some guys can be so full of themselves... although he remains nameless here, I won't trash talk him because as a person, he's a-ok.
Here's the kicker though! (This one here is the reason I am writing this post, I just noticed a pattern)
When I was significantly younger... I met a guy we can call him Chris (Not his name at all). Chris seemed to have it going on, he was older, he worked for "BMW", and he was pretty hott! Problem is he was on the verge of moving to FL because of a burn on his leg that was pretty bad. Regardless, we kept in contact for all those years. In the process I would send him little pics here and there of myself and he would send me pictures back, this was the extent of our fling. This was our thing, since we weren't able to see each other. We got to know each other pretty well and he even helped me out a few times. He was the beez knees... Then when I was finally able to make a trip down to FL, I find out he has a girlfriend who is pregnant. I know at this point that it's over and will not ever happen, so I agree to see him and hang out with him and my friends that were with me. Nothing at all happens... I'm talking not even a hug. This was in 2009 by the way. When I get back home I'm getting phone calls from the girlfriend calling me a slut and that I should know that he loves her and they are having a baby and they are soooooo happy and I need to stop trying to break up the happiness they have............. IS THIS B#*!@ SERIOUS?! I told her there was nothing going on and that we were just friends, but my best friend wasn't satisfied with that... So she then went on to tell the girlfriend that "he's a triflin a$s n*%$a" and that if he was able to lie to her or omit the fact that he was going to chill with me and we're just friends that she should just IMAGINE what he does with girls that aren't just friends....
Needless to say... that caused a lot of trouble.
Fast forward to this year... he contacts me again through facebook, and commences the "how's life?" bit and I give him the "life is great and keeping me super busy" and blah.. blah... blah..-bit and his next statement was "wow ,you still have big boobs!" I thought to myself that FOR SURE he had lost his Muhfuggin mind!
I really want to flip out but the truth is, that this kind of $hit is always going to happen, because we put ourselves out there and then want guys to respect us. I'm not proud of the shit that I did for any guy to ever think that it's ok to objectify me to the point where it just becomes about one of my body parts, or several. I've made a personal decision to not put myself in the "stupid" position. I will work on my actions and reactions and that way there will be no reason for me to be disrespected because I respected myself from the beginning. People don't always get what they want but they get what the deserve. When you push too hard for something you WANT, you end up getting the wrong thing, or you might even mess it up lol. I'm going to be a big girl now. I will not look for any one's attention. I will give myself attention and in the end... it will all work out.
I think I'm done venting.
<3,
Sherry
Thursday, June 7, 2012
I'm having asexual problem...
What do you do when you are love with someone but there's no longer any physical attraction? In fact, I don't feel physically attracted to anyone...Am I asexual?
H
H,
Love... What is that thing? CRAZY! That's what! It was very intense to read your question because I wanted to put myself in your position for a moment... I couldn't do it... so my advice probably will not reflect me feeling like I'm on your level (but I'll try my best not to be bias in any way).
It's kind of tough for me to answer your question directly so I'm going to break it down and give you several answers. These first two will give suggestions on attempting to fix the physical attraction factor... before we even begin to consider you being asexual.
Is the lack of physical attraction due to the fact that your significant other is out of shape?
If so, try to find fun activities for you both to do, such as Bike tours.. (click this for site), it's a fun work out and it's like $40 bucks per bike for the whole day, Helmet is included and $5 for a basket. You can bring sandwiches made of turkey and cheese on whole wheat bread and fruits and water, and get into shape together while having a romantic day and sparking that attraction over again. Take a jog together. Help your significant other get to where you can be physically attracted to them, and work on your bod at the same time... Why not? lol ;)
Is the lack of physical attraction due to something on/off/ or about their body that no longer "does it for you"?
If so, I'm attempting to picture what could be wrong and the only things that can come to mind that would be game-changers for me are like amputated limbs...or deformation (which if you're in love shouldn't matter anyway). Unfortunately I don't know what the situation may be.. so you might have to consider maybe talking to your significant other about this issue you're having. You can't go wrong with telling them your feelings. After all, you say you are in love with this person, so you should be able to share intimate thoughts without even a second thought. If you are attempting to look out for this person's feelings, eventually everything done in the dark comes to light and it will hurt them to find out later, in an alternate way that you are no longer physically attracted to them.
Now then... you said you're not attracted to anyone... and you're wondering if you're asexual.... Let's not jump the gun here. I had to look up asexuality to make sure I fully understood what it meant. So naturally I went to the most reliable source on the Internet WIKIPEDIA!! (click) LMFAO, but when they mentioned a Japanese chef, named Mao Sugiyama, surgically removing his genitals and serving them to customers.... uh... I decided to look for a more reliable source. That's when I stumbled upon AVEN's Site (click) they offer a much easier to understand definition of asexuality, and if this is really what you're feeling you might benefit from this site because they are an asexual community. You can talk to people who feel the same way and can help you better understand yourself.
Sexuality is another tough thing to understand. I've been attempting to come up with a blog involving steps and ways to "come out of the closet" for anyone who may need help with that, but I feel like nothing I write can ever make it any easier. I hope I've made sense to you regarding your issue... and thanks for the email... Later Gater!
<3,
Sherry
H
H,
Love... What is that thing? CRAZY! That's what! It was very intense to read your question because I wanted to put myself in your position for a moment... I couldn't do it... so my advice probably will not reflect me feeling like I'm on your level (but I'll try my best not to be bias in any way).
It's kind of tough for me to answer your question directly so I'm going to break it down and give you several answers. These first two will give suggestions on attempting to fix the physical attraction factor... before we even begin to consider you being asexual.
Is the lack of physical attraction due to the fact that your significant other is out of shape?
If so, try to find fun activities for you both to do, such as Bike tours.. (click this for site), it's a fun work out and it's like $40 bucks per bike for the whole day, Helmet is included and $5 for a basket. You can bring sandwiches made of turkey and cheese on whole wheat bread and fruits and water, and get into shape together while having a romantic day and sparking that attraction over again. Take a jog together. Help your significant other get to where you can be physically attracted to them, and work on your bod at the same time... Why not? lol ;)
Is the lack of physical attraction due to something on/off/ or about their body that no longer "does it for you"?
If so, I'm attempting to picture what could be wrong and the only things that can come to mind that would be game-changers for me are like amputated limbs...or deformation (which if you're in love shouldn't matter anyway). Unfortunately I don't know what the situation may be.. so you might have to consider maybe talking to your significant other about this issue you're having. You can't go wrong with telling them your feelings. After all, you say you are in love with this person, so you should be able to share intimate thoughts without even a second thought. If you are attempting to look out for this person's feelings, eventually everything done in the dark comes to light and it will hurt them to find out later, in an alternate way that you are no longer physically attracted to them.
Now then... you said you're not attracted to anyone... and you're wondering if you're asexual.... Let's not jump the gun here. I had to look up asexuality to make sure I fully understood what it meant. So naturally I went to the most reliable source on the Internet WIKIPEDIA!! (click) LMFAO, but when they mentioned a Japanese chef, named Mao Sugiyama, surgically removing his genitals and serving them to customers.... uh... I decided to look for a more reliable source. That's when I stumbled upon AVEN's Site (click) they offer a much easier to understand definition of asexuality, and if this is really what you're feeling you might benefit from this site because they are an asexual community. You can talk to people who feel the same way and can help you better understand yourself.
Sexuality is another tough thing to understand. I've been attempting to come up with a blog involving steps and ways to "come out of the closet" for anyone who may need help with that, but I feel like nothing I write can ever make it any easier. I hope I've made sense to you regarding your issue... and thanks for the email... Later Gater!
<3,
Sherry
Wednesday, June 6, 2012
Foodie Fatty's Feelings
Nice blog. How do you feel about eating healthy, dieting, exercising... Do you eat all kinds of food or are you picky?
-Ron
Thanks Ron, I'm trying and having fun at the same time!!
If you had asked me this question 3 months ago, my answer would've probably been "HAHAHA! I don't work out" and that is the reason why I gained A LOT of weight in the span of a year. -_-
Fortunately! I've quit smoking cigarettes and have tons of energy now! I've started running (sshh... not even close to running but I guess we can call it that since I do "go fast" for about 1 minute lol ) I've been eating moderate meals as opposed to the exaggerated portions I had been serving myself all my life....
So here's my opinion... It's hard to train yourself into eating healthy but it's necessary, at least for a good quality of life. I love veggies, though not like a vegetarian loves veggies but I wouldn't skip them with a meal. Dieting isn't my thing. I lack the discipline necessary to hold on to the same dietary regimen. I would like to consider it, but I need to wean myself off of junk. Now exercising is a whole different story! I think it's very important to exercise! Getting up off our behinds is sometimes a little hard seeing as tv is so very fun, computer usage is addictive (ie. The Sims 3 for me) and beds and chairs are ever so comfy. I try to do some yoga often, whether I use Exercise tv on demand (Channel 1023 on Time Warner Cable) or going to Bikram Yoga ( http://www.bikramyogaharlem.com/ They have good deals and discounts for students check out the site) which is hot yoga in 105 degrees for 90mins with the nicest people and some awesome bods! It helps stretch your body and does wonders for other bodily functions, and you feel like HEAVEN when you come out of there! I recently got a bike off of http://www.craigslist.org/ which I totally recommend because let's face it.... bikes are REALLY expensive! I ride the bike a few times around the block. I have my last meal around 9:30 and drink lots of water. That's about as far as diet goes for me, and as for exercise I want to get into a routine but it's going to take determination.
You asked if I eat all kinds of food or if I'm picky....... FOOD IS JESUS!! I am not picky at all which is what may have landed me in my weight gain predicament lol. I eat like it's my last meal, that's why it's going to be hard to cut back and eat only what is necessary and not what my stomach thinks is the amount it needs to be satisfied (which is considerably more than it should smh).
Slowly I'll work it all out but health is seriously important, I took the first step by quitting cigarettes, and starting to do some exercise. It's not going to be easy... but then again what is?
<3,
Sherry
-Ron
Thanks Ron, I'm trying and having fun at the same time!!
If you had asked me this question 3 months ago, my answer would've probably been "HAHAHA! I don't work out" and that is the reason why I gained A LOT of weight in the span of a year. -_-
Fortunately! I've quit smoking cigarettes and have tons of energy now! I've started running (sshh... not even close to running but I guess we can call it that since I do "go fast" for about 1 minute lol ) I've been eating moderate meals as opposed to the exaggerated portions I had been serving myself all my life....
So here's my opinion... It's hard to train yourself into eating healthy but it's necessary, at least for a good quality of life. I love veggies, though not like a vegetarian loves veggies but I wouldn't skip them with a meal. Dieting isn't my thing. I lack the discipline necessary to hold on to the same dietary regimen. I would like to consider it, but I need to wean myself off of junk. Now exercising is a whole different story! I think it's very important to exercise! Getting up off our behinds is sometimes a little hard seeing as tv is so very fun, computer usage is addictive (ie. The Sims 3 for me) and beds and chairs are ever so comfy. I try to do some yoga often, whether I use Exercise tv on demand (Channel 1023 on Time Warner Cable) or going to Bikram Yoga ( http://www.bikramyogaharlem.com/ They have good deals and discounts for students check out the site) which is hot yoga in 105 degrees for 90mins with the nicest people and some awesome bods! It helps stretch your body and does wonders for other bodily functions, and you feel like HEAVEN when you come out of there! I recently got a bike off of http://www.craigslist.org/ which I totally recommend because let's face it.... bikes are REALLY expensive! I ride the bike a few times around the block. I have my last meal around 9:30 and drink lots of water. That's about as far as diet goes for me, and as for exercise I want to get into a routine but it's going to take determination.
You asked if I eat all kinds of food or if I'm picky....... FOOD IS JESUS!! I am not picky at all which is what may have landed me in my weight gain predicament lol. I eat like it's my last meal, that's why it's going to be hard to cut back and eat only what is necessary and not what my stomach thinks is the amount it needs to be satisfied (which is considerably more than it should smh).
Slowly I'll work it all out but health is seriously important, I took the first step by quitting cigarettes, and starting to do some exercise. It's not going to be easy... but then again what is?
<3,
Sherry
Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Gather around kiddies it's...Story Time!!
Hidey-ho Bubblers!
I seem to be getting no questions so I will tell my really crazy story of my wallet's FML moment this weekend...
This story dates back to Friday the Worst of June (see what I did there? I said worst instead of first...), I woke up late and had to run out of the house, and get on the bus which gets detoured and delayed for 25 mins where a boy then faints... needless to say.. I was late for work -_-
I order my breakfast and it's missing stuff, which is terrible to me because food is JESUS! Get back to my desk and commence a terrible work day, the night wasn't too bad.. went to my friends house for "circle time" and watched Netflix.
But then Saturday (YIKES) comes around... Dun Dun Dunnnn..................
I wake up have some more "circle-time" and hop on the train for an hour and forty-five minutes (because trains suck on the weekend) miss my bus... -_- Finally I get home and have to hurry out to go to a pole dancing (http://FoxyFitnessAndPole.com/) class (where I had a blast.com!)... Anyway I decide I'm going to ride my bike there... but that doesn't work out because my bike wants me to die. I get over that hill, I go to the class... then go home... on the way home I call up "ma brutha frumah nuthah muthah" to see what's up for the night... end up making plans with him to go to his house on the bike (don't ask why I want this bike to do things for me when it clearly hates me). I meet up with him after tying a pillow to the seat for privates pain relief, we start riding towards my house and then change routes towards the train... where we had the realization that when people are on the train with their bikes.. SOMETHING WENT WRONG lmfao. We finally get to his house and commence our nightly plan which include but are not limited to "circle-time" and "thirst quenching" among other things and on the way to meet my brother at another hang out my wallet was dropped...
My wallet contained my life in it! Passport, Birth Certificate, Permit, SS Card!! ( I know these aren't things I should carry around but I spent a long time as a nomad so there were certain things I needed handy) I was devastated and spent about 3 hours retracing my steps back and forth from my current party to my last. My night and life were very sad.... I kept trying to cheer myself up and look at the bright side, I can cancel my cards, and replace all of my documents, at a price of course, but they can all be replaced. My kick ass brother had my back transportation wise, and we finally got home when the sun was up and a new miserable day had started with me being identity-less. sigh...
I couldn't get out of bed no matter how hard I tried... my mother even attempted to get me up (she had no clue what had happened the night before) but nothing worked. She went to cook some food and I couldn't even imagine getting up to eat...
Then I hear her pick up her phone and say " Hello, who? Sherry lost her wallet?" and I popped out of bed!! "WHAT?!" oooooh! sweet baby Jesus yesssss!
And when she passes me the phone I hear my awesomely awesome friend Browney on the other end telling me his brother found it in the street and when he realized it was me he started figuring out how to get in contact with me...... Things got a little better after that.. I still don't have cash because I have no cards.. but it's working out just fine because I am ME again!! I can't get deported to Biloboobula land and be married to a goat! I am an American again, and all of my documents are now safe in my drawer... smh I will NEVER carry them around unless I need them that day!
And that's my story! Yayy wallet baby!
I seem to be getting no questions so I will tell my really crazy story of my wallet's FML moment this weekend...
This story dates back to Friday the Worst of June (see what I did there? I said worst instead of first...), I woke up late and had to run out of the house, and get on the bus which gets detoured and delayed for 25 mins where a boy then faints... needless to say.. I was late for work -_-
I order my breakfast and it's missing stuff, which is terrible to me because food is JESUS! Get back to my desk and commence a terrible work day, the night wasn't too bad.. went to my friends house for "circle time" and watched Netflix.
But then Saturday (YIKES) comes around... Dun Dun Dunnnn..................
I wake up have some more "circle-time" and hop on the train for an hour and forty-five minutes (because trains suck on the weekend) miss my bus... -_- Finally I get home and have to hurry out to go to a pole dancing (http://FoxyFitnessAndPole.com/) class (where I had a blast.com!)... Anyway I decide I'm going to ride my bike there... but that doesn't work out because my bike wants me to die. I get over that hill, I go to the class... then go home... on the way home I call up "ma brutha frumah nuthah muthah" to see what's up for the night... end up making plans with him to go to his house on the bike (don't ask why I want this bike to do things for me when it clearly hates me). I meet up with him after tying a pillow to the seat for privates pain relief, we start riding towards my house and then change routes towards the train... where we had the realization that when people are on the train with their bikes.. SOMETHING WENT WRONG lmfao. We finally get to his house and commence our nightly plan which include but are not limited to "circle-time" and "thirst quenching" among other things and on the way to meet my brother at another hang out my wallet was dropped...
My wallet contained my life in it! Passport, Birth Certificate, Permit, SS Card!! ( I know these aren't things I should carry around but I spent a long time as a nomad so there were certain things I needed handy) I was devastated and spent about 3 hours retracing my steps back and forth from my current party to my last. My night and life were very sad.... I kept trying to cheer myself up and look at the bright side, I can cancel my cards, and replace all of my documents, at a price of course, but they can all be replaced. My kick ass brother had my back transportation wise, and we finally got home when the sun was up and a new miserable day had started with me being identity-less. sigh...
I couldn't get out of bed no matter how hard I tried... my mother even attempted to get me up (she had no clue what had happened the night before) but nothing worked. She went to cook some food and I couldn't even imagine getting up to eat...
Then I hear her pick up her phone and say " Hello, who? Sherry lost her wallet?" and I popped out of bed!! "WHAT?!" oooooh! sweet baby Jesus yesssss!
And when she passes me the phone I hear my awesomely awesome friend Browney on the other end telling me his brother found it in the street and when he realized it was me he started figuring out how to get in contact with me...... Things got a little better after that.. I still don't have cash because I have no cards.. but it's working out just fine because I am ME again!! I can't get deported to Biloboobula land and be married to a goat! I am an American again, and all of my documents are now safe in my drawer... smh I will NEVER carry them around unless I need them that day!
And that's my story! Yayy wallet baby!
Monday, June 4, 2012
Love or Lust?
Once upon on a time I was made aware that my darling g/f was infatuated with my manhood, to the point where I'd question whether she was in love or in lust. She'd rave and rave about him but what about me? Should I have made a bigger deal about the situation or ignored it like I did?
J.
J,
It was a little strange for her to be infatuation with your "manhood". But we're not here to discuss her problem right? lol I think you did just fine ignoring it. I know I would have. There are certain things that are very hard to address without making someone feel badly about themselves... this is one of those subjects. She obviously had something else going on if she felt like your "manhood" deserved more attention than you the boyfriend. If you're wondering if it was Love or Lust on her behalf... I would go with Lust, Love goes deeper than your "manhood" ( no pun intended lol ) -Sherry
J.
J,
It was a little strange for her to be infatuation with your "manhood". But we're not here to discuss her problem right? lol I think you did just fine ignoring it. I know I would have. There are certain things that are very hard to address without making someone feel badly about themselves... this is one of those subjects. She obviously had something else going on if she felt like your "manhood" deserved more attention than you the boyfriend. If you're wondering if it was Love or Lust on her behalf... I would go with Lust, Love goes deeper than your "manhood" ( no pun intended lol ) -Sherry
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